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      • Born Again? What Are You Talking About?
      • How to Deal with Our Ego?
      • The Cure to Burnout
      • Want Happiness? Don't Live for It.
      • Can You Force Yourself to Be Happy?
      • We Are Not Our Own
      • Be Disciplined but Don't Worship Discipline
      • How to Deal with Depression
    • Experiencing Change >
      • A Fool Repeats His Folly
      • How God Wakes Us Up?
      • Secrets to Lasting Improvements
      • How Christ Changes People
      • Focus on Christ, Not on Others or Ourselves
      • Fear Not
      • Fearless Living
    • Faith >
      • "Why Me," We Wept!
      • How to Please God
      • God Works for Those Who Wait for Him
      • How Can I Walk by Faith?
      • God Glorified in Man's Dependence
      • Facing the Uncertain Future
      • Accept Your Confusion
      • Abraham Doubted God?
      • Abraham's Thousand-Year Promise
      • God, Help Us Surrender the Throne to You!
      • Be Still. Be Quiet.
      • The Hidden Tapestry God Weaves
      • Get Up and Claim the Land
      • Are You Putting GOD in a Box?
      • When Your Plan Doesn't Match God's Plan
      • Judas Who Betrayed Jesus
      • George Muller' Faith, Helping Tens of Thousands of Children
      • Conviction for What You Will Never See
      • Be Courageous. Be Like Caleb
    • God's Love >
      • You Can Never Understand the Cross
      • Christ's Life Elucidating God and Us
      • The Secret of Loving God
      • The Most Important Commandment
      • Christ Crucifixion and Resurrection
      • Does the Cross Show a Very Weak Christ?
    • Grace >
      • What's So Amazing about Grace
      • Our Wonderful Salvation
      • God Wants All People to Be Saved
      • The Sovereignty of God in Salvation
      • Sinners in the Hands of an Angry God
      • You Fear God? So Does Satan. How Are You Different?
      • Why Are We Blessed?
      • The Lie of the Grind
      • What Christians Believe
    • Holy Spirit >
      • How to Seek the Holy Spirit
      • The Indwelling and Outflowing of the Holy Spirit
      • Worship in the Spirit, Not the Soul
      • For Better or Worse, Live by the Spirit
      • Filled by the Holy Spirit
      • Why Is It Called the Fruit of the Spirit?
      • On Cultivating the Fruit of the Spirit
      • Who Is the Holy Spirit?
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      • Our Hope Shapes Us
      • Living Hope Eclipses Suffering and Pain
      • In Tragedy, Grief with Hope
      • Wow! Our Wonderful End Times!
      • New Hope That Gives Us New Life
      • Christians, the Counter-Culture Community, Build on Christ
      • Are Christians Gutless
    • Human Relationship >
      • A New Community
      • The Ultimate Elite Group: Christian Community
      • Christian Community Is Not Self-Centered
      • Be Involved in the Christian Community
      • You Are My Friend
      • We Need Someone to Hold Us Accountable
      • Christ Needed Friends. So Do You.
      • DISCIPLINE Your Children
      • Friendship
      • Parents and Children
      • Eve from Adam's Rib?
      • Hope for the Family
      • Cultivating a Healthy Marriage
      • Marriage as Commitment and Priority
      • Sex and LGBTQ+
      • What Does the Bible Say about LGBTQ+
      • Date, Just Do It, and Get Married?
      • The Married, the Single, and Sex
      • Sexuality and Christian Hope
      • Love, Lust and Liberation
      • Hospitality to Strangers
      • How to Resolve Conflict and Restore Relationships
      • Racism in the Church
      • Can "Loving Christians" Be Irrational Bigots?
      • Can Different Races, Cultures and Religions Live in Peace?
      • How to Earn Respect
    • Humble >
      • Charity and Its Fruits
      • How God Heals Broken Nations
      • Do You Know an Arrogant SOB?
      • Allow God to Break You
      • You Go for Glory. But Christ Called You to Be Despised?
      • Preachers and Congregation: Don't Be a Know-It-All
    • Joy >
      • God Brings Us into Everlasting Pleasure
      • How God Made Me Happy in Him
      • What Is It Like to Enjoy God
      • Joy in a Painful Life? How?
      • Suffering Amidst Joy
    • New Purpose >
      • Sex, Power, Riches, and Materialism
      • Do You Really Want to Live in Heaven?
      • What Is the Purpose of Living?
      • Seek the Things That Are Above
      • How to Know the Will of God
      • Don't Waste Your Life
      • Why God Made You
      • What Does It Mean to Be a Living Sacrifice?
      • Does Jesus Want Us to Be Salty?
      • What If Our Lives Have No Meaning?
      • Observe Samson but Learn from Christ
      • The Mortals Walking with the Almighty?
      • Old Testament People Living for What?
      • The Great Commission: Key to Spiritual Growth
      • Being a Witness to Satan
      • Fools Focus on Money. Why?
      • An Immigrant's Courage
      • Why Giving Ourselves to God Isn't Stupid?
      • LIVE. You May Be Dead Tonight
      • Christian Apologetics
      • What Does Baptism Symbolize?
      • Esau I Hated
      • The Way of Holiness
      • Re-imagine Law for Lawyers
    • Peace >
      • The Babel Incidence
      • Why Do We Feel Insecure?
      • How to Fight Fear and Anxiety?
      • Peace in a World Gone Mad
      • At Peace amidst Turmoil?
      • How to Maintain Calmness in All Situations?
    • Perseverance >
      • How to Thrive in Our Suffering?
      • Why Did Christ Leave Us?
      • Pressing into the Kingdom of God
      • Everyday Trials
      • Meeting God in the Desert of our Soul
      • Hold onto God in Difficult Times
      • How to Live in Suffering?
      • The Pain of Not Knowing Why We Suffer
      • His Punctured Palms
      • The King and the Furnace
    • Prayer >
      • God Knows and Controls Everything. Why Pray?
      • Pray, Always Pray!
      • The Holy Spirit's Intercession
      • The Secret Power in Prayer!
      • How to Pray Throughout Your Day
      • The God Who Hears and Answers Prayer!
      • Pray Sincerely and Not Selfishly
      • The Focus of Our Prayers
      • Christ Prayed Looking Up. Why Do We Face Down?
      • Why Pray?
      • Prayers for Christians Who Are Suffering
      • What Should We Pray for When We Suffer?
    • Questions On Christianity >
      • Reject Christ, Grim Future
      • Who Is Jesus?
      • Christ's Resurrection Same as Lazarus'?
      • The Senselessness of Suffering
      • Old Testament Laws?
      • Was God Cruel in the Old Testament?
      • What Are We to Make of Christ?
      • How Do We Know Christianity Is True?
      • Violence and Killing in the Bible
      • Answers to Some Questions on Christianity
      • From Stardust to New Creation
      • Does God Exist? What about Evolution?
      • Questions on the Trinity
      • Is God Anti-Sex?
      • Why Does God Allow Suffering?
      • Is Christianity Intolerant to Other Faith?
      • Is Christianity Anti-Woman?
      • Is Christianity Irrational?
      • Can Your Decision Ruin God's Plan?
      • Christ Loves Sinners, so Why Stop Sinning?
      • Could We Be Good by Following the Ten Commandments?
      • How Can a Holy God Have Pleasure in Sinners?
      • Are Science and Faith That Incompatible?
      • Science Points Us to God
      • Sense of Right and Wrong
      • Why Our Father, not Our Mother, in Heaven?
      • Cruelties to Canaanites: Has God Changed?
    • Repentance >
      • Have You Gone Too Far, America?
      • If It Isn't the Consequences of My Own Actions
      • Are You Ready to Meet God Today
      • What Comes Before Destruction
      • The Heart of Man Is Exceedingly Deceitful
      • What You Sow You Reap
      • What Holds Your Heart
      • God's Blessings and Curses: Examples upon Examples
      • Paul Was Sued. How Did He Defend?
    • Sermon on the Mount >
      • Sermon on the Mount: Law and Grace
      • What Is God's Kingdom
      • Self-Defense and Retaliation
      • What Good Is an Eye for an Eye?
      • Who Are the Blessed?
      • How Far Should Our Mercy Extend?
      • What and Where Is God's Kingdom?
    • Stewardship >
      • Why Should We Care about Our Environment?
      • Giving Back
      • A Faith that Handles Wealth Wisely
      • The World Is Dying. What's Your Role?
      • Find Your Mission in Life
      • Choose Your Work Carefully
      • Use Your Uniqueness to Serve God
      • How to Balance Work and Rest
      • How to Maintain a Healthy Work-Life Balance?
      • Why and How Should We Work to Improve Things on Earth?
      • Could Our Work Be Joyful?
      • Dignity in Work
      • Money: Good, Bad, or Ugly?
      • Enlisting Support for Your Dream
      • Making a Plan to Improve Your Life
      • Getting People to Work Together
      • When You Need a Fresh Start
      • Redeeming the Time
    • Strong Foundation >
      • The Most Important Lesson I Could Ever Teach
      • What We Need to Know about Demons
      • Christianity According to Paul
      • The Thorns that Choke the Word
      • How to Strengthen Our Minds
      • Choose Our Foundation Wisely
      • What Is a Solid Foundation?
      • Do You Want a Fulfilled Life?
      • Mark of Deep Spiritual Experience
      • The Beginning Doctrine of Theology
      • How to Live as a Christian by CS Lewis
    • Worship >
      • The Excellence of Christ
      • Even the Smallest Task Can Be Sacred
      • Worship Gives Us Peace and Rest Even in Great Adversity
      • What Does the Benediction Mean?
      • The Importance of "Hallowed Be Thy Name"
      • Hope in Lamentation

We Need Someone to Hold Us Accountable

A Lesson from John Ortberg
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We are accountable for the lives we lead and the choices we make. But we’re quick to make excuses for our mistakes. This started since Adam and Eve, with Adam blaming Eve and Eve blaming the serpent. This tendency to shift blame still haunts us today.
 
On judgment day, we are accountable to God. We must give an account of ourselves to Him, including everything we have done and every empty word we have spoken. (Romans 14:12, Matthew 12:36). Our account to God also includes sins of omission—that is, the things we should have done and did not. God holds us accountable for what He has given us (Matthew 25:19, 29). Nothing is hidden from Him, with all our secrets judged (Hebrews 4:13, Romans 2:16).
 
Let us start today to be honest, take responsibility of our mistakes, accept our faults, and stand up again. With God’s offer of forgiveness and grace, we can have a fresh start.
 
One secret to successful physical training is to have partners holding us accountable. They can encourage each other and keep each other focused on their goals.
 
Similarly, we should have an accountability partner to help train our character and train us to be godly (1 Timothy 4:7-9).
 
A successful accountability relationship is difficult. It requires honesty and takes courage.
 
We can make our commitment with our partners to follow Christ. Confess sins to each other. Be honest and open. This will help us heal (James 5:16). Ask our partner to remind us of our commitment, and the good thing we should be doing. This can help us do what we cannot by ourselves.
 
Accountability can be a key factor in our progress towards godliness. It can push us toward love and good deeds (Hebrews 10:24). Such an accountability partner is God’s gift for us, and since we will be accountable to God, let us start with our accountability partners today.
 
Summarized from a sermon by John Ortberg:
https://menlo.church/series/the-way#/modal/message/5591/mlo
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