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      • How to Please God
      • God Works for Those Who Wait for Him
      • How Can I Walk by Faith?
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      • Accept Your Confusion
      • Abraham Doubted God?
      • Abraham's Thousand-Year Promise
      • God, Help Us Surrender the Throne to You!
      • Be Still. Be Quiet.
      • The Hidden Tapestry God Weaves
      • Get Up and Claim the Land
      • Are You Putting GOD in a Box?
      • When Your Plan Doesn't Match God's Plan
      • Judas Who Betrayed Jesus
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      • You Can Never Understand the Cross
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      • The Secret of Loving God
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      • Does the Cross Show a Very Weak Christ?
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      • True Grace Distinguished from the Experience of Devils
      • Why Are We Blessed?
      • The Lie of the Grind
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      • The Indwelling and Outflowing of the Holy Spirit
      • Living from the Spirit and Not the Soul
      • For Better or Worse, Live by the Spirit
      • Filled by the Holy Spirit
      • Why Is It Called the Fruit of the Spirit?
      • On Cultivating the Fruit of the Spirit
      • Who Is the Holy Spirit?
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      • Living Hope Eclipses Suffering and Pain
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      • Are Christians Gutless
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      • Can "Loving Christians" Be Irrational Bigots?
      • Can Different Races, Cultures and Religions Live in Peace?
      • How to Earn Respect
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      • Charity and Its Fruits
      • How God Heals Broken Nations
      • Do You Know an Arrogant SOB?
      • Allow God to Break You
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      • God Brings Us into Everlasting Pleasure
      • How God Made Me Happy in Him
      • What Is It Like to Enjoy God
      • Joy in a Painful Life? How?
      • Suffering Amidst Joy
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      • Sex, Power, Riches, and Materialism
      • Do You Really Want to Live in Heaven?
      • What Is the Purpose of Living?
      • Seek the Things That Are Above
      • How to Know the Will of God
      • Don't Waste Your Life
      • Why God Made You
      • Romans 12
      • Does Jesus Want Us to Be Salty?
      • What If Our Lives Have No Meaning?
      • Observe Samson but Learn from Christ
      • The Mortals Walking with the Almighty?
      • Old Testament People Living for What?
      • The Great Commission: Key to Spiritual Growth
      • Being a Witness to Satan
      • Fools Focus on Money. Why?
      • An Immigrant's Courage
      • Why Giving Ourselves to God Isn't Stupid?
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      • Christian Apologetics
      • What Does Baptism Symbolize?
      • Esau I Hated
      • The Way of Holiness
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      • The Babel Incidence
      • Why Do We Feel Insecure?
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      • At Peace amidst Turmoil?
      • How to Maintain Calmness in All Situations?
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      • Why Did Christ Leave Us?
      • Pressing into the Kingdom of God
      • Everyday Trials
      • Finding God in the Desert of the Soul
      • Hold onto God in Difficult Times
      • How to Live in Suffering?
      • The Pain of Not Knowing Why We Suffer
      • His Punctured Palms
      • The King and the Furnace
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      • Pray, Always Pray!
      • The Holy Spirit's Intercession
      • The Secret Power in Prayer!
      • How to Pray Throughout Your Day
      • The God Who Hears and Answers Prayer!
      • The Right Way to Pray
      • God Centered Prayer
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      • Prayers for Christians Who Are Suffering
      • What Should We Pray for When We Suffer?
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      • Who Is Jesus?
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      • What Are We to Make of Christ?
      • How Do We Know Christianity Is True?
      • Violence and Killing in the Bible
      • Answers to Some Questions on Christianity
      • From Stardust to New Creation
      • Does God Exist? What about Evolution?
      • Questions on the Trinity
      • Is God Anti-Sex?
      • Why Does God Allow Suffering?
      • Is Christianity Intolerant to Other Faith?
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      • How Can a Holy God Have Pleasure in Sinners?
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      • Science Points Us to God
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      • What Holds Your Heart
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      • What and Where Is God's Kingdom?
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      • Mark of Deep Spiritual Experience
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      • The Excellence of Christ
      • Even the Smallest Task Can Be Sacred
      • Worship Gives Us Peace and Rest Even in Great Adversity
      • What Does the Benediction Mean?
      • The Importance of "Hallowed Be Thy Name"
      • Hope in Lamentation

The Lie of the Grind

A Tim Keller Sermon Summary
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Many want others to say they are good. Some seek Botox, liposuction, or self-esteem therapy. Others fight to get into a good school or company. Some seek a trophy wife, while others go so far as to kill themselves, as in the Japanese practice of seppuku.
 
As we age, such desires are met differently—from being recognized as brave, smart, or good, to attaining financial or other success in the society.
 
Many strive to earn praise from an important person. Disappointment kicks in when they find out the person is not that important, or the person is not good enough to judge them. In the end, they may not even know what they want.
 
We want someone big to approve of us. But the biggest is God. The Bible explains that God’s approval is won in being righteous before God. Let’s learn from Luke 18:9-14, where a Pharisee considered himself righteous.
 
The Pharisee prayed. He started with thanking God, but immediately turned to declaring himself better than others. He used his own metrics to determine himself being better: He was not a robber or an adulterer, he fasted twice a week, and he gave away 10 percent of his earnings (v11-12).
 
His metrics included fasting, which was a cultural or a personal preference. The Pharisee set his own rules, and he relied on them to feel good about himself and look down on others.
 
Then a tax collector prayed. In those days, tax collectors were considered evil, like gangsters. He knew he was bad, and he asked for God’s mercy.
 
In the end, the Pharisee (the good one) was lost, while the tax collector (the bad one) was accepted by God (v14).
 
Don’t lean on your behavior. Look at Christ’s life. Our behaviors are so far off.
 
Instead, rely on God’s mercy. Rely on the death on the cross of His only Son. Only then can we find God’s approval. In spite of all our flaws, we still can be His wonderful children!
 
Don’t set up your own rules to determine what is good and bad. Instead, trust God and use His rules.
 
Summarized from a Tim Keller sermon, titled, “Inside out living.”
https://gospelinlife.com/downloads/inside-out-living-5319/

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