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      • Focus on Christ, Not on Others or Ourselves
      • Fear Not
      • Fearless Living
    • Faith >
      • "Why Me," We Wept!
      • How to Please God
      • God Works for Those Who Wait for Him
      • How Can I Walk by Faith?
      • God Glorified in Man's Dependence
      • Facing the Uncertain Future
      • Accept Your Confusion
      • Abraham Doubted God?
      • Abraham's Thousand-Year Promise
      • God, Help Us Surrender the Throne to You!
      • Be Still. Be Quiet.
      • The Hidden Tapestry God Weaves
      • Get Up and Claim the Land
      • Are You Putting GOD in a Box?
      • When Your Plan Doesn't Match God's Plan
      • Judas Who Betrayed Jesus
      • George Muller' Faith, Helping Tens of Thousands of Children
      • Conviction for What You Will Never See
      • Be Courageous. Be Like Caleb
    • God's Love >
      • You Can Never Understand the Cross
      • Christ's Life Elucidating God and Us
      • The Secret of Loving God
      • The Most Important Commandment
      • Christ Crucifixion and Resurrection
      • Does the Cross Show a Very Weak Christ?
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      • What's So Amazing about Grace
      • Our Wonderful Salvation
      • God Wants All People to Be Saved
      • The Sovereignty of God in Salvation
      • Sinners in the Hands of an Angry God
      • You Fear God? So Does Satan. How Are You Different?
      • Why Are We Blessed?
      • The Lie of the Grind
      • What Christians Believe
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      • The Indwelling and Outflowing of the Holy Spirit
      • Worship in the Spirit, Not the Soul
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      • Christ Needed Friends. So Do You.
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      • Can Different Races, Cultures and Religions Live in Peace?
      • How to Earn Respect
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      • How God Heals Broken Nations
      • Do You Know an Arrogant SOB?
      • Allow God to Break You
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      • Preachers and Congregation: Don't Be a Know-It-All
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      • God Brings Us into Everlasting Pleasure
      • How God Made Me Happy in Him
      • What Is It Like to Enjoy God
      • Joy in a Painful Life? How?
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      • Sex, Power, Riches, and Materialism
      • Do You Really Want to Live in Heaven?
      • What Is the Purpose of Living?
      • Seek the Things That Are Above
      • How to Know the Will of God
      • Don't Waste Your Life
      • Why God Made You
      • What Does It Mean to Be a Living Sacrifice?
      • Does Jesus Want Us to Be Salty?
      • What If Our Lives Have No Meaning?
      • Observe Samson but Learn from Christ
      • The Mortals Walking with the Almighty?
      • Old Testament People Living for What?
      • The Great Commission: Key to Spiritual Growth
      • Being a Witness to Satan
      • Fools Focus on Money. Why?
      • An Immigrant's Courage
      • Why Giving Ourselves to God Isn't Stupid?
      • LIVE. You May Be Dead Tonight
      • Christian Apologetics
      • What Does Baptism Symbolize?
      • Esau I Hated
      • The Way of Holiness
      • Re-imagine Law for Lawyers
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      • The Babel Incidence
      • Why Do We Feel Insecure?
      • How to Fight Fear and Anxiety?
      • Peace in a World Gone Mad
      • At Peace amidst Turmoil?
      • How to Maintain Calmness in All Situations?
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      • How to Thrive in Our Suffering?
      • Why Did Christ Leave Us?
      • Pressing into the Kingdom of God
      • Everyday Trials
      • Meeting God in the Desert of our Soul
      • Hold onto God in Difficult Times
      • How to Live in Suffering?
      • The Pain of Not Knowing Why We Suffer
      • His Punctured Palms
      • The King and the Furnace
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      • God Knows and Controls Everything. Why Pray?
      • Pray, Always Pray!
      • The Holy Spirit's Intercession
      • The Secret Power in Prayer!
      • How to Pray Throughout Your Day
      • The God Who Hears and Answers Prayer!
      • Pray Sincerely and Not Selfishly
      • The Focus of Our Prayers
      • Christ Prayed Looking Up. Why Do We Face Down?
      • Why Pray?
      • Prayers for Christians Who Are Suffering
      • What Should We Pray for When We Suffer?
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      • Reject Christ, Grim Future
      • Who Is Jesus?
      • Christ's Resurrection Same as Lazarus'?
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      • Old Testament Laws?
      • Was God Cruel in the Old Testament?
      • What Are We to Make of Christ?
      • How Do We Know Christianity Is True?
      • Violence and Killing in the Bible
      • Answers to Some Questions on Christianity
      • From Stardust to New Creation
      • Does God Exist? What about Evolution?
      • Questions on the Trinity
      • Is God Anti-Sex?
      • Why Does God Allow Suffering?
      • Is Christianity Intolerant to Other Faith?
      • Is Christianity Anti-Woman?
      • Is Christianity Irrational?
      • Can Your Decision Ruin God's Plan?
      • Christ Loves Sinners, so Why Stop Sinning?
      • Could We Be Good by Following the Ten Commandments?
      • How Can a Holy God Have Pleasure in Sinners?
      • Are Science and Faith That Incompatible?
      • Science Points Us to God
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      • Why Our Father, not Our Mother, in Heaven?
      • Cruelties to Canaanites: Has God Changed?
    • Repentance >
      • Have You Gone Too Far, America?
      • If It Isn't the Consequences of My Own Actions
      • Are You Ready to Meet God Today
      • What Comes Before Destruction
      • The Heart of Man Is Exceedingly Deceitful
      • What You Sow You Reap
      • What Holds Your Heart
      • God's Blessings and Curses: Examples upon Examples
      • Paul Was Sued. How Did He Defend?
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      • What Is God's Kingdom
      • Self-Defense and Retaliation
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      • How Far Should Our Mercy Extend?
      • What and Where Is God's Kingdom?
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      • Use Your Uniqueness to Serve God
      • How to Balance Work and Rest
      • How to Maintain a Healthy Work-Life Balance?
      • Why and How Should We Work to Improve Things on Earth?
      • Could Our Work Be Joyful?
      • Dignity in Work
      • Money: Good, Bad, or Ugly?
      • Enlisting Support for Your Dream
      • Making a Plan to Improve Your Life
      • Getting People to Work Together
      • When You Need a Fresh Start
      • Redeeming the Time
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      • The Most Important Lesson I Could Ever Teach
      • What We Need to Know about Demons
      • Christianity According to Paul
      • The Thorns that Choke the Word
      • How to Strengthen Our Minds
      • Choose Our Foundation Wisely
      • What Is a Solid Foundation?
      • Do You Want a Fulfilled Life?
      • Mark of Deep Spiritual Experience
      • The Beginning Doctrine of Theology
      • How to Live as a Christian by CS Lewis
    • Worship >
      • The Excellence of Christ
      • Even the Smallest Task Can Be Sacred
      • Worship Gives Us Peace and Rest Even in Great Adversity
      • What Does the Benediction Mean?
      • The Importance of "Hallowed Be Thy Name"
      • Hope in Lamentation

Self-Defense and Retaliation

A Greg Laurie Sermon Summary
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The Ten Commandments primarily focus on behaviors, while the Sermon on the Mount focusses on desires.
 
According to the Sermon, our goodness needs to be better than that of the teachers of the law and Pharisees. They depended on their works, but actions can be deceiving. Do we refrain from committing crimes for moral reasons, or because we fear getting caught?
 
Christ focuses on our hearts and desires. Actions arise from them. For example, envy compelled Cain killed Abel, committing the first murder in the Bible.
 
Hate can lead to murder, so don’t even call someone a brainless idiot or a worthless fool (1 John 3:15, 1 John 2:9, Matthew 5:22). Lustful thoughts can lead to adultery, so we should guard our minds (Matthew 5:28).
 
“An eye for an eye” should be the job of the government. Police and the court of law are established by God to administer justice, matching punishments to the offense so as to deter criminals and purge evil (Romans 13:1-2, Deuteronomy 19:18-21).
 
Sometimes, force is necessary. For example, Christ administered justice with physical force in a temple (John 2:13-16). In time of danger, Christ told his disciples to get swords to defend themselves (Luke 22:36-38). Paul exercised his rights as a Roman citizen (Acts 16:35-40). But beware of the consequences. If one lives by the sword, he will die by the sword (John 18:10-11, Matthew 26:52).
 
There are times to take the unreasonable hit, turn the other cheek, and go the extra mile. Note that insults are difficult to bear. Even Paul could flare up (Acts 23:1-5). But our endurance can turn enemies into friends or, better yet, into followers of Christ.
 
Christ is our model. He loved His enemies, as shown by His crucifixion. Christ’s behavior even converted the hardcore criminal who was crucified next to Him (Luke 23:39-43).
 
Christ focuses on our hearts. He wants us to be perfect like our heavenly Father. So, do whatever is necessary to maintain a pure heart (Matthew 5:29-30, 48). But more importantly, rely on our Father in heaven to do so (Hebrews 12:1).
 
Summary of a sermon by Greg Laurie:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rlqNRq5hl1g

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